By STRETCH+BLOOM | On March 4, 2014 In Dating and relationships
Here’s part 2 of the series on attracting love:
In today’s world, TV shows and magazines get you thinking that 35 is end of life.
If you were to listen to them, all the good men are already married, your looks are fading and if you happen to own cats, you’ll be labelled a cat lady and can forget ever being approached by a man.
However, I tend to think being 35 and single is actually the best place to find love, especially when you work with the law of attraction.
YOU ARE MORE CONFIDENT IN YOUR OWN SKIN
First and hopefully, by the time you reach this age, you likely know who you are and don’t look to others to validate your identity. There is no more people-pleasing because you are secure in who you are and don’t seek other’s approval anymore.
Maturity and experience have brought you to a place where you understand yourself, therefore, you will take these positive elements into your next relationship.
That means way less baggage is taken into your next relationship. No more ridiculous arguments, based in jealousy and insecurities. This positivity in your feelings opens the door for a lasting, loving relationship.
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
More importantly, you know where you are going and what you want out of life.
You’ve experienced life and your career is progressing in the right direction. Now, you will know who is probably a good match, not by superficial factors, but by assessing their deeper, long-term compatibility.
Your vivid vision of the ideal mate means there is no more dating guys because of a cool hairstyle or tattoos like you did when you were 25. You seek out a guy with similar beliefs, matching personality, values and goals. Not wanting to waste time, you only imagine and accept dates from serious men.
YOU ARE LESS CONCERNED ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS
Also, you now know what you want in a mate and you are no longer driven by society’s ideal and stereotypes of what an ideal partner should be.
You are no longer afraid to claim what works for you, even if it’s not cool. Your priorities are in order, so happiness is more important than image or what other people think.
You attract the guy who has a plan for his life and is working towards achieving it and repel the flashy and flaky ones who party all the time.
The number of dates may have decreased but the number of possible soul mates has increased. You only draw to you promising men, improving the chances of finding a long-term relationship and lasting love.
So there you have it, I hope you can see how 35 and single is an extremely powerful position to be in.
You now have the valuable ability of being able to recognize the man that’s a good match for you.
Opportunities to meet may have thinned out, but that’s without counting on your maturity, the power of the law of attraction and your ability to draw a perfect match no matter the circumstances.
If you’re ready to find love even though the odds may seem against you, I have created a program that shows you how to leverage your vibration to attract your Mr Right. You might want to check it out!